I do understand the cheating part but not the I'm "still" staying part

I am not fan of cheating. I hate it and I don't want it.

I understand the concept of cheating, I really do.

I think it's the temptation that excites us. It's the feeling of defying the rules.

It's the thrill of having this attraction for someone and the fact that your not allowed because your in a relationship. The concept of "not right" makes it more in tense and exciting for others. People do things that are against the rule because they think it's fun. Anything that is "not allowed" and doing that seems so fun.

It's pathetic but it's true.

Some cheat because they got fed up with their relationship. And or that they felt more attraction to the other party. I totally get the point of why people cheat... It's because they are not satisfied.

But I don't see the whole point of staying? Why stay if you're not satisfied? It may sound like I am also questioning why cheat if you can just leave? Maybe what I really get was the one time cheating but not the continuous cheating.

I think those who constantly cheats (which means they're still staying with their original/legal lover) are cowards, weak and insecure. Cheating doesn't make you a man, it makes you less than a man - it makes you a boy - a jerk. For woman, cheating doesn't make you beautiful or the hot gorgeous chick - it makes you a selfish bitch.

I don't get it why you stay in a relationship that doesn't satisfy you? Oh! Maybe because you can't be satisfied with "one" relationship which makes you psychologically unhealthy.

I don't get it why you still accept the person who constantly cheats? Why? WHY?

Okay, maybe it's because you love that person but does that person truly loves you? Once is enough, but twice is way too much. I can forgive the one time cheat but not the continuous one - not the over and over again.

For those martyr out there, wake up! No one deserve to be treated like that. You must accept the love that you think you deserve! And don't tell me that you deserve less. You don't - we don't. As long as we know how to love, we deserve to be loved.