So I've been reading all this crap fb post about love & I've been receiving text messages about love. What annoys me the most are the lines like this:
"You don't need a reason to fall in love"
"I love you for no reason"
"I don't need a reason to fall in love with you!"
That's bullshit men! I mean, how can you fall in love with that person for no reason? There's a reason for everything. Everything happens for a reason!
We fall in love with a reason, and we fall out love with reason.
If you fall in love with that person for no reason, then definitely you'll fall out of love for no reason too.
Just imagine a situation where the one you love got switched with someone else body. Can you still say that you love that person just because he got the body of the one you truly love?? Come on dude. It's like saying that you just fall for the physical appearance!
Or just imagine the one you love got into an accident and he/she just had a major face surgery and he/she have a complete different face now. Like your looking at a different person now, will you still love that person? of course you will! Well, if you love him/her with right reasons.
I would rather hear someone say "I have a lots of reason not to love you, but there's just one reason why I love you and that is stronger than those lots of reason" - It's like saying goodness will always prevails. It's how we choose to look at things. And it also how God loves.
We all love with a reason - we all must love with a reason! So whenever things got a little bit of out of place, you'll just think and remember why do you love that person? What makes you love him/her?
Remember why you fall in love for that person. It will be also the reason why you'll want to stay despite all the problems your facing.
If things gone a little bit of shitty, think again. Think why you fall in love with person. Why do you love him/her? And if the reason are still there, then stay. Though if you feel like everything is too much, you can leave.
have you been in a relationship? when you fall so hard.. you will begin to lose your reason. All you'll feel is how much you love that someone and how much you want to be with him. and yeah..that sucks.. been there done that.
ReplyDeleteIs the reason you're talking is the same reason I am pertaining?
DeleteI think that, what you're trying to say is that... sometimes when we fall damn hard we lose senses. We just do everything of out love... I've been through with that. Lol. When I think about it, it makes really laugh and sort of embarrassed.
I think it is very important that when you fall in love you don't lose yourself. Love can change but not too point where you change so much that it doesn't make sense at all.