What to do to be loved?

Sometimes we asked to ourselves...

"What's wrong with me?"

"Why not me?"

"What should I do?"

"Should I change myself for you to like me?"

The thing is, we all want to be loved. Admit it! We all do need love. Who doesn't need love? Love makes the world go round. Anyways, weeks ago I suddenly asked  myself "Who you are?" lol. Yes, I did asked myself that. Sometimes I get confused who's the real me? I have this different personas depending to who I'm with. But of course i get to keep some of my characteristics. It's just that sometimes I act different when I'm with guys - guys whom I like. I don't know, am I acting cute? or hard to get? It's like I'm so desperate for them to like me but well I know for sure that I don't look desperate but that was also my plan - not to look so desperate. It sound so child like, huh?

Okay so I realized that it so pathetic of me to change and to act like someone who I'm not in front of someone I like. Before I figured out what to do in order to be loved, I found this article in yahoo that mention what guys like in girls or what man prefer - what attracts them. So I read and read, then I realized that well it sound just like me - well some of it. So I actually laughed at myself for being so pathetic.

I realized that I don't have to pleased anyone. I don't have to act like someone else. I just have to be me. I just have to be true to myself. Be the real me and let them love the real me. I think what attracts man most are those girls who are not afraid to be themselves. Girls who's true. And besides if they love me because of my character at the moment then they don't really love the real me so we will be just both end up tired at each other.

So from now on, I won't act. I'll just be myself and whether they love me or not it's up to them.

And I do believed that someone will love me just the way I am. I know, definitely! :)

So everyone - man or woman, homo-bi-straight, just stay true! Be yourself someone will love you just the way you are. Someone out there will find your personality attractive. Someone out there will love us, so stay true! :)